It’s probably no surprise that many people seeking a private hand analysis are curious about their relationships.
While I remind folks that I cannot predict the future, I can give you clarity on why and how you get yourselves into (and out of) the same relationships (just with different looking people) again and again.
To determine your style in love (what you need/expect and what you won’t tolerate) let’s review your heart lines. I elaborate with pictures in my E-book on Heart Lines but I wanted to address the basics today.
There are four major heart line types:
1) The Strong & Silent
2) The Nurturer
3) The Philosopher
4) The Passionate
Each heart line begins under your pinkie (Mercury) finger and travels across your hand.
The Strong and Silent Heart line ends directly below your middle (Saturn) finger and is most closely associated with the Earth element. Strong and Silent hearts love to demonstrate their love through action – making, building or creating gifts for those they love. Talking about feelings isn’t their strong suit, they’d rather give you their masterpiece and head off to their workshop, room or cave to decompress. Big displays aren’t their style. Sometimes other heart types call them aloof or uncaring. This isn’t true at all. They just prefer to save their energy for creating rather than talking about their feelings. Understanding this need in your Strong and Silent type love is paramount. However, it’s important for the Strong and Silent type to take steps to come out of their cave more often and have a conversation or two about what’s on their mind. I recommend scheduling specific conversation time with your Strong and Silent Heart. If there are two of you in the home, it’s paramount that you schedule time to connect, lest you lose interest and feelings due to the self-imposed lack of connection.
The Nurturer Heart line ends in a whoosh heading up to your pointer (Jupiter) finger and is most closely associated with the Water element. Nurturer hearts love to demonstrate their love by getting to know you. Conversation and physical closeness makes their heart sing. While some see them as clingy, their desire to know you is pure. They take the information they learn and remember your favorite flower, how you like your coffee and always remember to send a card on your birthday or anniversary. Their need for closeness is very real and while it may seem a little claustrophobic – especially for a Strong and Silent heart, it’s important to understand their need for closeness. On the other hand, it’s equally important for The Nurturer to step back and allow space for their loved ones. The more space you allow, the greater closeness you can engender. When The Nurturer is feeling ignored, they may well retaliate by engendering guilt, but don’t let it fool you, they really just want you to ask how they are. When the Nurturer is feeling loved and respected they are able to step back and allow those in their life the time and space they need to grow and share, asking when they need more connection, rather than demanding it or pouting.
The Philosopher Heart line travels straight across the hand and ends directly below the pointer (Jupiter finger) and is most closely associated with the Air element. Philosopher hearts love to demonstrate their love by talking and encouraging deep discussions with those they care about. To others they may seem aloof or sarcastic at times but they are making their connection in a deep and powerful way. It’s important to engage the Philosopher in deep, meaningful conversations as well as give them permission and opportunities to actually engage on a more intimate level. Ask your Philosopher to put their money where their brain is and “show up” in your relationship and you might be pleasantly surprised.
The Passionate Heart line is a term used by Hand Analyst Pamelah Tablak to describe the heart line that travels across the hand and ends in a whoosh toward the middle (Saturn) finger. The Passionate heart line is most closely associated with the Fire element. Passionate hearts love to be the center of attention and have their needs met. They can seem fickle and less than connected to others, but they are simply trying out all types of opportunities to see what feels best. Passionates need to feel excitement and may create drama in relationships if they are feeling bored, they are vivacious and easily attract admirers who want to do their bidding. All that charisma can be tiring for others though, so it’s important to find ways to get you Passionate partner to slow down and focus on one thing a time. Sometimes that means YOU. Help your Passionate create structure in your relationship, all the while recognizing their need for independence and you’ll have a deeper sense of closeness.
Taking time to understand not only your heart lines, but the heart lines of those close to you will take your relationship to an even deeper level of intimacy and compassion.
Very interesting… Thank you!